Word of advise from Maggie

Hi Amrul,

Really good to hear from you. Sorry I've been so long coming back to you....been constantly busy at work.

My, you have been very busy on the romance front. All sounds very complicated, what with the 1 girlfriend that you like but brings with her many complications and the other girl being the sister of your last love.

Do you think that you are ready to move on from Lian yet? I know you are trying to but in some ways it seems that you may be trying too hard to replace her. If you did get together with Lian's sister, would that not be too painful a reminder of the love you had and lost with Lian? You did mention that it was kind of traditional to move on to her sister but it does sound as though she is happy with her life and current boyfriend and doesn't feel that you are part of her life plan currently.

There is someone out there for you Amrul, someone who won't bring too many complications with her and who will bounce into your life when you least expect it and, more importantly, when you are ready to move on with your life.

I hope the above doesn't sound too harsh but I would hate to see you get hurt all over again by trying to reach for someone who is sort of out of bounds!

How is work going for you? I know you are a hard worker and you always seem to be in the thick of any project you are involved in. I am working on a few projects at the moment so relatively busy. It's better to be that way though. You feel as though your job is safer when there is plenty of work around.

Have to go now as I'm due in a meeting in 5 minutes. I'm also off on holiday now for a week. We are driving to France tonight.

Take care and catch up with you soon.


Maggie